--- title: "7 Sexy Tips for Rocking a Two-Piece with Confidence This Summer ..." description: "Everyone Drinks the Poison; Size Does Matter; Comfort Counts; Focus; Screw the Shamers; More ..." url: "https://fashion.allwomenstalk.com/sexy-tips-for-rocking-a-two-piece-with-confidence-this-summer/" category: "fashion" last_updated: "2026-06-02" --- # 7 Sexy Tips for Rocking a Two\-Piece with Confidence This Summer ... So a few days ago, I bought a bikini, and (here's the miracle), I didn't cry while I tried on any of the dozen or so rejects. Why? Because I found a little confidence this summer, and I'm ready to rock my two-piece. Here's what I discovered. ## 1. Everyone Drinks the Poison ![clothing, vacation, fun, water park, aqua,](https://resize.allw.mn/1028x0/filters:format(webp)/filters:quality(70)/content/ze/vc/opv5gryg577abb55dc186298743456_567x566.jpg) It's so weird how all of us drink that toxic blend of self-shaming and self-loathing. Look, no one, not even Kate Upton, is PERFECT. There's no such thing! You may not know it, but someone else is wishing she had your body, the one you're always picking apart. ## 2. Size Does Matter ![clothing, swimwear, swimsuit bottom, maillot,](https://resize.allw.mn/1028x0/filters:format(webp)/filters:quality(70)/content/ct/yl/rnyfviv7577abb6c06c60064695923_600x600.jpg) Once I started ignoring the size on the tag inside the swimsuit, and just paid attention to how it fit, I found a flattering bikini. Who cares if I normally wear a size 4, and the bikini I chose is an 8? It fits, and that's what matters. ## 3. Comfort Counts ![clothing, vacation, furniture, chair,](https://resize.allw.mn/1028x0/filters:format(webp)/filters:quality(70)/content/vh/wo/thdki168577abb7a45399791308035_551x549.jpg) If you're tugging at the swimsuit in the fitting room, you'll be tugging at it while you're poolside, too, and even if no one notices, you'll feel like a spectacle. Cast that uncomfortable suit aside and try on something else. ## 4. Focus ![clothing, hair, model, beauty, black hair,](https://resize.allw.mn/1028x0/filters:format(webp)/filters:quality(70)/content/g5/a6/roayi5nt577abc92e8e8e603053951_500x556.jpg) Okay, so I don't love everything about the way my body looks, but I do love my tummy, and my smile; what is it about your body that you love? Focus on that. I don't mean to find a suit that accentuates that - I mean, keep YOUR focus on what you love most. ## 5. Screw the Shamers ![clothing, turquoise, black hair, swimwear, thigh,](https://resize.allw.mn/1028x0/filters:format(webp)/filters:quality(70)/content/oc/mh/h04458lh577abc74581bc310022820_600x600.jpg) There will always, always be some asshat at the beach or by the pool ready to hurl a hurtful insult at you. Ignore them! They're obviously unhappy in their own skin and want to bring you down too. Don't let them! Smile, and give them an extra bootie-shake as you saunter away. ## 6. Gather the Girls ![clothing, swimwear, supermodel,](https://resize.allw.mn/1028x0/filters:format(webp)/filters:quality(70)/content/th/le/buw6hvmg577abce514a5e281830586_500x500.jpg) I hate feeling singled out, and I'm much more comfortable traveling in a pack with my squad. If you're not quite confident yet, head out for the first few trips to the pool with your friends, and banish any "fat talk" among yourselves. ## 7. Pamper and Prep ![vacation, boat, leisure, watercraft, sea,](https://resize.allw.mn/1028x0/filters:format(webp)/filters:quality(70)/content/z9/f6/b6k780sv577abcc9a7554812308867_500x472.jpg) When I've spent a little time on myself before I head to the pool, I feel more secure and sexy. Exfoliate. Slip on some scented sunscreen. Wear a little lip gloss. Maybe try a pretty new braid. Do something to pamper yourself a little, and you'll feel more confident, too. 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